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You Didn't Hear it from Us 16/05/15

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Mariella's medicine: A Spoonful Of Bisexuality

3311788402_13de5d5fd0In this week’s advice column in the Guardian there’s a lot of good advice from Mariella Frostrup. A man writes in to say that he’s recognised his fiancee’s father as someone her had sex with once and that he’s now being pressured by him to come out as bisexual to his beloved. Her advice is pretty spot on. Be honest, be true to yourself. Don’t allow yourself to be blackmailed. I cannot quibble with that. But although that medicine is good, I think the spoon could do with some work.

People Have Attractions, You Won’t Believe What Happens Next!

Here’s the thing – when I was younger I went out with both men and women (and some others, for what it’s worth) which my wife knows all about. But I don’t think she realises how tall some of my exes are. I’ve not sat down and spelled out for her that when I’ve said that I don’t find height an issue what this actually meant. Some of them were really tall. Others really short. And, if I’m honest, the sex was variable but it was definitely with a range of different statures.  As Mariella writes: “it’s not conducive to happiness as a couple for one partner to be deluded about the true nature of the other”.
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You Didn't Hear it from Us (4/04/15)

360px-Nina_Hartley_01062035Here’s a round-up of some of the news, blogs posts and comment we missed this week.