We Need To Talk About Intimate Partner Abuse in the Bisexual Community
We asked four bisexual survivors of domestic- and intimate partner violence to tell us their stories, and this is what we learned. [Contains frank descriptions of abuse in survivors’ own words]
We don’t have a frame of reference for our experiences
Stereotypes abound when it comes to partner violence. We believe men are abusers and women are abused and we believe same-sex relationships are by their nature free from violence. We believe abuse must… Continue reading
Bi Visibility Day: Activists For LGBT Charity Stonewall Tell Their Stories
Stonewall, the biggest LGBT charity in the UK, hasn’t always had the best track record when it comes to bisexual visibility in its campaigns. But things are changing fast under a new leadership team and here at Biscuit we salute their efforts – and bring you two bi activists very proud to be speaking out under the Stonewall banner…
Sarah Lynn, Communications Officer, Stonewall Cymru
I recently started my first relationship with a woman. Despite knowing that I identify very openly as bi (pansexual to be exact), and that I had previously dated men, my housemate and friends like to crack jokes about how me and my girlfriend will soon be moving in together and getting a cat – because that’s what lesbians do.
Ridiculous stereotypes and tired jokes aside, knowing that even though I am very open about my sexuality, it is still not taken seriously by those… Continue reading
Five Things to Watch if You Don’t Want to Watch Stonewall
By now, you’ve probably seen the trailer for Stonewall, the film accused of whitewashing, ciswashing and bierasing events that took place on Christopher Street, New York, in June 1969. If you’ve decided to #BoycottStonewall, consider watching one of these films instead.
1. Pay it No Mind – The Life and Times of Marsha P Johnson
Marsha P Johnson was an African American, bisexual transwoman, famed for being photographed by Andy Warhol and for her role in instigating the Stonewall Riots. This documentary tells her story though original footage of interviews with Johnson as well as interviews with her family and friends. You need to see it immediately.
(full doc)
2. Stonewall (1995)
Stonewall, the final work of director Nigel Finch who died shortly after filming finished, is a fictonalised account of the riots written by Rikki Beadle Blair and based on the memoir Stonewall by Martin Duberman.… Continue reading
You Didn't Hear it from Us 27/06/15
Here’s a round-up of some of the news, blogs posts and comment we missed this week.
- Attitude and DIVA both said enough is enough when it comes to biphobia in lesbian and gay communities.
- Vogue got slammed for calling Cara Delevigne’s bisexuality a ‘phase’.
- Gwendolyn Fougy Henry posted a brilliant tumblr post on the reasons bi people of colour may not participate in spaces created for them.
- The Stonewall Inn was given ‘landmark’ status.
- A report by Public Health England told us that rates of gonorrhoea and syphilis are going up in gay and bi men.
- There’s a “God loves Gays” sign and a homophobic banner rotating on the same billboard.
- Femmeviolet talked about femme as a queer identity.
- HuffPo delved into the world of bisexual OKCupid.
- A lesbian-identified bi woman described her battle with heterosexual privilege.
Did we miss any other must-see stories?… Continue reading
“A Real Shift in Public Discourse”: The Biggins Furore Shows Things Are Getting Better
Christopher Biggins’ biphobic remarks have been ruled acceptable by Ofcom. That’s not great news, but there is a sunny side to this situation, says Dr Helen Bowes-Catton of BiUK.
It’s not fashionable to admit it, but this whole Biggins-Big-Brother-biphobia saga really cheers me up- and not just because it’s so delightfully alliterative. I know that’s an odd thing to say, but bear with me and I’ll explain.
Now don’t get me wrong, I was really disappointed that Ofcom, responding to complaints about Biggins’ biphobic remarks on Celebrity Big Brother, incomprehensibly decided that, actually it was ok to be offensive about bisexuals on national TV. Like a lot of people, I found myself speculating wryly about the likelihood of a contestant getting away with similar remarks about lesbians or gay men. But on balance, the way this whole thing has played out seems to me to offer more reasons… Continue reading →